YOU CAN HAVE IT!

Dear God,

I want a heart that forgives, one that is full of love. Teach me how to overcome evil with goodness. Choosing to overlook offenses and not to hold on to bitterness or even harbor a grudge.

Father, help me to have a heart that forgives. One that keeps choosing love over hate and forgiveness over resentment.  Please hide your word within so I’m not easily offended, damaged or hurt.

Teach me Lord how to pray for everyone including my enemies, and if the ones that hurt me are the ones closest, or the ones that I’ve known the longest help me to still love them just like how you still love me.

And Lord when I’m hurting, when the pain is so deep and it’s so hard to talk about it, help me to remember to give up my right to hold on to it with hatred inside. Instead please help me to let go of every person that has ever hurt me, every pain and every hurt I’ve experienced. Lord I hand it over to you…You can have it…..Amen.

“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” Matthew 6:14-15

“The heart that forgives is the heart that will live totally free from the pain of the past and the heart that lets go is the heart that will know so much freedom”

 

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WORN AGAIN…

work again

1st Saturday December – March

12pm – 2pm

Come and get a hot cup of soup during the rough winter months.

Need a coat? Come by and select from a variety of coats.

*We will also accept donations of new or gently used coats during this time

Know Your Worth

Know Your WorthSometimes you come across a simple reminder that just takes your breath away and you just feel compelled to pause and take some time to take it in.

That’s how I felt when I saw this picture today, it made me pause and remember how beautifully intertwined Love and Trust can be….

Today I just want to simply paint a picture in your mind about how much you are loved by God, our spiritual Father! Won’t you take a moment out with me and absorb the powerful simplicity of that truth.

Then listen to the song below because I want you to know that no matter what comes your way, never stop believing that you are as precious, as cared for, and as loved as depicted here.  So trust.  Because there is something absolutely special that comes from knowing how very much you are worth!

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Don’t miss your opportunity to just simply….

Be There

 

Have you ever had one of those days that was just way too busy and emotionally draining and the last thing you wanted to do was exchange pleasantries with anyone?

A while back I was having one of those days.  I was pressed for time, sweaty and running behind. But I paused to say a quick hi to my neighbor and when I did, she returned my hello and then out of nowhere she just blurted out the details of the crappy day and week she was experiencing.

As she talked I realized she just desperately needed a listening ear.  So I closed my trunk and just listened. When she got the last word out, I realized we were living out the same week and we just looked at each other, threw our heads back and shared a laugh.  It was great!

It was the longest interaction we have ever had.  Two people who live in the same building but who typically never exchanged anything but light pleasantries. I didn’t even know her name and she didn’t know mine.  But in that moment we were exactly what the other needed, we were there, to be someone that could laugh and find the humor in the craziness of the day and week that had just passed.

I think to myself how easy it would have been for me to have missed the opportunity to just be there, if I had not been willing to look past my own stuff, and pay attention to the need of someone else. Plus the payoff for me was that I got to realize I wasn’t the only one who had  experienced crappy moments in the week, and that I could laugh about it and move on to focus more positively on the week ahead!

Plus I confirmed a great truth that contrary to what my husband might say I am a terrific listener (LOL)!

Bottom line: Sometimes we wait to do big things for others, when all we need to do is just be willing to be present and completely there, so that when an opportunity presents itself we can step beyond the hustle and bustle of our own lives and positively engage in theirs.

“Being there does not require anything from us that we are not able to give.  For what may seem small to us, might be the big difference someone else desperately needs!”~CCM

 

“I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers [sisters] of mine, you did for me.” Matthew 25:40


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BALANCING THE NEED TO HELP WITH THE NEED TO GROW!

balancing the need to help

This week I found myself reflecting on a story I heard a long time ago about a caterpillar who had been struggling in its cocoon.  A well-intentioned passerby saw the caterpillar struggling and decided to cut the cocoon with a knife to free the caterpillar and save it from what he supposed would be certain death.

But when the caterpillar was freed it fell to the ground, helpless.  It tried to flap its wings to fly, but its wings were under developed and did not have the strength needed to fly.  All the butterfly could do was crawl away, underdeveloped and exposed too early to the world around it without the strength it needed to successfully navigate through it.

THE TAKE AWAY

  • Even with the best intentions if we rush in too quickly to help, fix, or try to protect others from the process they have to go through, we might unknowingly become the very thing that hinders the development they need to become resilient and successful in their lives.

 

  • There are many times in life where we may find ourselves struggling, and so we pray for God to step in and fix everything immediately.  But he does not always do it in the timing we hoped because he knows exactly what we need to go through to become all that he has destined for us to be.  Therefore the things he does not quickly remove must be necessary for our growth, development and ultimate success.

So the next time we are tempted to get frustrated with the process, I pray we will pause and thank him instead for the growth that will come because of it!!!

 

 

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11

 

 

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Don’t rush to cry when a door closes…Stop to ask what’s next?

when a door closes

 

Sometimes we encounter a moment when a door has to close on a section of our lives that we did not necessarily expect or want to let go of.  Six years ago my niece had one such door closing, which was accompanied by much anxiety and tears.

She was not able to attend her dream school due to circumstances beyond all of our control. When she first found out that the door had firmly closed on her dream, it broke her heart and imploded her world.

However the closing of the door on her dream school opened an unexpected door into a small private school that turned out to be exactly what she needed to really grow and discover the depth of her potential, strength and versatility.

As I sat through her graduation and listened to all the special awards she received and watched with sheer delight as she almost cart wheeled across the stage to accept the top award for overall academic excellence. I could not help but remember the tears that were shed when she did not get into her dream school. I saw then that a closed door is not always a bad thing.  Sometimes it’s just a strategic wildcard, which permits a necessary reroute that can take you unto a path you would not have ventured on had the door not closed.

Experiencing this journey with her made me appreciate more than ever that if you can see the closing of a door as a fresh opportunity, you will remember to ask what’s next, put your hand on the handle, breathe in and climb confidently into what’s next!

 

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous.  Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you where ever you go” Joshua 1:9

 

 

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Encouragement

Pastor and Leaders Empowerment

Join us

October 5th – 8th, 2011

for a Conference and Retreat about:

Rehearsing our story, Renewing our mind & Rebuilding our church*

For more information please contact:
Alonye Henry | plecr2011@gmail.com
Springfield Gardens UMC
131-29 Farmers Blvd. Springfield Gardens, NY 11434 

(718) 528-7267 ext. 207 - www.sgumcny.org

Register here at Plecr2011.org

*1 Peter 2: 3-7

October 2011 will mark Springfield Gardens UMC (and Hanson Place Central UMC) first Pastors and Leaders Empowerment Conference and Retreat as a  Congregational Resource Center under Strengthening the Church for the 21st Century*.

This conference is an opportunity to gather church leaders and pastors from a diverse perspective to dialogue about controversial and challenging issues that affect our respective constituencies across the globe.  It is our hope to engage in a deeper reflection about our need for a transnational, radically inclusive, economically empowering, kingdom mandate.  It is our goal to facilitate practical and authentic conversation about topics that will address some of the issues that affect our church and society such as race, gender, sexuality, and spirituality.

You are invited to participate in exuberant worship, innovative and practical teaching, and authentic discipleship. We want your questions answered, your minds renewed, and your spirits refreshed. Our workshops are designed to address real issues and will be mutually beneficial to all who attend.

We are excited to provide an atmosphere where pastors and leaders can engage in open dialogue in a safe space. It is our hope that all who attend will be empowered, and not leave the same.

www.sbc21.org

HOW’S YOUR VISION?: SEEING PAST OBSTACLES

eye

 

I love my contact lenses! But no matter how clearly I am able to see with them, I have to willingly remove each lens, check and clean them every night so I can guarantee my ability to see clearly tomorrow.

Likewise every now and again you have to check your vision as it relates to your future.

If your vision check reveals only obstacles in your path, then it’s time to step back and ask yourself:

 

WHAT’S BLOCKING MY ABILITY TO SEE AHEAD?

  • Is it baggage from unresolved and unaddressed past issues for example: unforgiveness?
  • Is it fear of the unknown, fear of failure or even fear of success?
  • Is it misplaced anxiety based on a lack of trust in God, yourself or others?
  • Or are there people, habits, circumstances and motivations that you need to unplug from?

Bottom line: In life we occasionally have to clean and clear our perspective [i.e. the lens we use to frame and define the way we see the world and the possibilities around us] by addressing these challenging questions, but we in doing so you must always remember that:

The presence of obstacles in and of themselves will not stop you from moving forwardIt is only what you believe about those obstacles that have the ability to affect your progress forward.

Therefore keep your perspective clear by never allowing yourself to view obstacles as being larger than your ability to overcome them!

 

 

And let us not lose heart and grow weary and faint in acting nobly and doing right, for in due time and at the appointed season we shall reap, if we do not loosen and relax our courage and faint. Galatians 6:9 (Amplified)

 

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What would you change if you were not afraid?

how we love

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

WHAT ABOUT HOW YOU LOVE?

Love is Patient,
Love is Kind.
It does not envy,
It does not boast,
It is not proud.
It is not rude,
It is not self-seeking,
It is not easily angered,
It keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects
Always trusts,
Always hopes,
Always perseveres.
Love never fails.
1 Cor. 13: 4-8

 

SO…ARE YOU COURAGEOUS ENOUGH TO CHANGE?

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